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How to transform physical restlessness into body relaxation.
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“A meditator, having gone to the wilderness, to the shade of a tree, or a secluded place, sits down, folds their legs crosswise, holds their body erect and arouses mindfulness in the forefront of their mind.” The Buddha, MN 119.
Skill 01 in Mindfulness of Breathing:
Back: Meditation Skill 00: Diaphragmatic Breathing.
Next: Meditation Skill 02: Mind Relaxation.
Your next step is to develop mindfulness of your body by enjoying how nice it feels to relax your body with slow, gentle breaths. This step helps alleviate feelings of physical restlessness related to stress and enhances body awareness in preparation for mindfulness of breathing in Skill 05.
Intentional relaxation and tuning into how nice it feels will train your mind to let go of the world around you and cultivate a sense of restful awareness within your body. Gentle diaphragmatic (belly) breathing is a natural doorway to developing deep physical relaxation that will lower your experience of stress and increase your body awareness during meditation and throughout the day.
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Meditation Instructions:
When joined, the following five steps create the complete meditation for Skill 01: Body Relaxation. Learn each step individually and then, when comfortable, combine them all together. For insight, be curious about how to calm restlessness and appreciate the feeling of relaxation that comes with it.
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What Meditation Skill 01 looks Like:
Develop mindfulness:
To relax your body:
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Step 1: Preparation for meditation.
In this meditation, you move from lying down in Skill 00 to sitting upright with your legs crossed on a cushion on the floor, on a kneeling stool, or resting on a comfortable, supportive chair.
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Step 2: Develop mindfulness.
Mindfulness is the meditative skill of gently remembering (keeping in mind) what you are experiencing now in your body, mind and senses. Mindfulness counters mind wandering and is exercised by putting gentle effort toward remembering an experience that is present to you.
Tip: Learning to tune into how nice it feels to set aside complexity and be present in these simple experiences is the key to deepening meditation.
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Step 3: Relax your body with slow breaths.
In MIDL, these slow, relaxing breaths are known as softening breaths because your body and mind become softer as you relax. Finding enjoyment in taking slow, softening breaths is the key to deepening calm and insight as your meditation path deepens.
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Step 4: Enjoy the relaxation.
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Tip: At this stage of meditation, thinking about the past and future and mind wandering are not a problem; your main aim is to settle feelings of restlessness in your body that come from stress or anxiety developed throughout the day. To develop insight, take an interest in any feelings of restlessness or the desire to move your body around. Playfully, learn how to settle these feelings of restlessness by using slow belly breaths, as learnt above, to develop comfort and ease in your body. When repeated in this way, physical restlessness will come up less in your meditation, and this relaxation will begin to appear in small gaps in your daily life.
Progression in mindfulness of breathing can be accurately tracked by observing your ability to access the Meditation Markers. This can be done by developing insight into their associated Meditative Hindrances and changing the conditions that support them.
Insight: Insight is developed in this stage of mindfulness of breathing, by being curious about creating the conditions that support Marker 01: Body Relaxation, to weaken the conditions that support Hindrance 01: Physical Restlessness.
Progression Map for Mindfulness of Breathing
Meditative Hindrances. Meditation Markers.
(Hindrances to calm). (Signs of deepening calm).
00: Diaphragm Breathing.
01: Physical Restlessness. → 01: Body Relaxation.
02: Mental Restlessness. 02: Mind Relaxation.
03: Sleepiness & Dullness. 03: Mindful Presence.
04: Habitual Forgetting. 04: Content & Happy.
05: Habitual Control. 05: Natural Breathing.
06: Mind Wandering. 06: Length of Each Breath.
07: Gross Dullness. 07: Breath Sensations.
08: Subtle Dullness. 08: One Point of Sensation.
09: Subtle Wandering. 09: Sustained Attention.
10: Sensory Stimulation. 10: Whole-Body Breathing.
11: Anticipation of Pleasure. 11: Sustained Awareness.
12: Fear of Letting Go. 12: Access Concentration.
Meditative Hindrance.
Physical Restlessness (01).
Unable to experience physical comfort.
Physical Restlessness refers to the feeling of being unsettled in your body, which prompts you to move around and fidget to find comfort during meditation. It occurs during meditation due to the build-up of energy from stress, aversion, or overstimulation in our daily lives. Simplifying your life and relaxing with slow, softening breaths will lower your experience of stress and anxiety and weaken your desire to distract yourself with sensory stimulation.
Antidote.
Developing your skill in relaxing your body creates the conditions for Marker 01, and is the antidote for the Hindrance of Physical Restlessness. To settle physical restlessness, cultivate curiosity about finding enjoyment in relaxing your body through slow, gentle belly breaths. The key is that as you let a breath out, allow a part of your body, such as your shoulders, to relax slowly and deliberately so that you can feel the relaxation. You can move through different parts of your body in this way. Once you have a feel for it you will be able to relax your whole body at one time. It is also helpful to bring gratitude to your mind by reflecting on the small things you are grateful for. Take your time at this beginning stage and include in this how fortunate you are to have this time to meditate and spend time with yourself. This will help you feel more present and aid you in finding enjoyment in relaxing your body.
Tip: Although your focus is on settling the Hindrance of Physical Restlessness at this stage of mindfulness of breathing, all the other hindrances listed above may also be present during your meditation. While other hindrances are present, it is important to settle each Hindrance in the order presented in the above Map for Mindfulness of Breathing, as each Marker of calm is the antidote for its associated Hindrance.
These MIDL techniques you are learning naturally integrate into daily life. Now that you understand how to relax your body through breathing, your next step is to establish a foundation and reference point in your daily life from which you can develop insight (understanding) about yourself. The Buddha recommended kaya-gata sati: mindfulness immersed within the body.
To develop mindfulness of your body, check in during the day to see if you are holding too much effort in your body. This feeling of 'holding effort' within your body will reflect when your mind and body are becoming stressed. Your task during the day is to be curious about relaxing your body when you notice this internal 'holding' and to observe how you become more mindful and aware of your body, as you relax.
Whenever you notice you are tensing up in your body, take a few slow belly breaths to allow your body to relax. As your body relaxes, observe how awareness of your body increases. This relationship between conscious relaxation and increased awareness of our body is essential. As awareness of your body increases through relaxation, so will your sense of your body's presence and your enjoyment of it. This mindfulness of your body can then be used as a reference point for developing insight into anything throughout your day that disturbs it.
Meditative Hindrance. Meditation Marker.
01: Physical Restlessness. → 01: Body Relaxation.
In Meditation Skill 01, you will learn four things that you can bring into your daily life:
Once you are familiar with Meditation Skill 01, you can integrate it into your daily life. The key is to check in on how you feel throughout the day, starting with when you wake up in the morning.
If so, take a few softening breaths to relax your body, notice how nice it feels to relax, and then immerse yourself back into life. This simple act of taking a few softening breaths will withdraw your awareness from your intellectual mind and bring awareness into your body, therefore developing mindfulness of your body (grounding).
How to do it.
The key to being mindful of your body in daily life is not to try to be mindful of your body in daily life. 'Trying' will take you in the opposite direction, as your mind will see mindfulness as something else that has to do with another problem to solve. It is essential to make being mindful during the day something enjoyable for your mind to do rather than just another task to complete.
This is done by:
It's all about the gaps.
Being mindful in daily life is not about striving and straining to be mindful; it is about making being mindful a fun activity for your mind to engage in. By checking in periodically throughout the day and softening or relaxing your body, you will create small gaps in the habitual patterns of your mind and body. With repetition, these gaps of habitual 'mindlessness' will gradually decrease, and your enjoyment of increased mindfulness will increase. Through the enjoyment of how nice it feels to return to mindfulness, mindful awareness will begin to naturally rest in your body, creating a safe space for your mind to escape the stresses of daily life.
Stress throughout the day.
You can use the skills you have learnt in Meditation Skill 01 to gradually weaken your experience of stress throughout your day by re-engaging your diaphragm muscle in respiration whenever you notice you are feeling stressed. More information can be found in this section of the MIDL Insight Meditation website: Meditation Skill 00.
You are ready to progress to Meditation Skill 02: Mind Relaxation when:
Tip: Your mind will wander, and you may feel sleepy during this stage of meditation. This is perfectly ok and a sign of successful relaxation. These are both signs of imbalances in your mind's energy and will be addressed as your meditation practice deepens. For now, take an interest in how your mind wandering and sleepiness happen by themself (anatta). Observing in this way will increase your mindfulness and help your mind learn to let these imbalances go. The most important part of this stage of meditation is that when you notice that your mind has wandered, you come back to being curious about how deeply you can relax your body.
How do I know when to progress?
The progression of relaxation and calmness during mindfulness of breathing unfolds naturally on its own (anatta). As you enjoy relaxing and letting go, you will begin to notice that your mind will naturally move between each Marker in meditation when it is ready to do so. Skill in meditation is learning to recognise when it does. Each meditation session will be different. The depth of relaxation and calm you can access will change from day to day, depending on what is happening in your life.
Think of the Markers of calm in each Skill as being stages of relaxation.
We experience the transitions between the Markers of calm during meditation as:
From this, we can see that these are natural stages of relaxation and letting go that happen naturally. Our task is to avoid losing balance and ending up in a hindrance. There is no need to perfect each Meditation Skill; as your experience of relaxation and calm (samatha) deepens, go with it. Just be careful of the imbalances to relaxation and calm (hindrances) along the way by becoming too restless from too much effort, or too dull from too little effort. Think of it as learning to balance on a skateboard.
When developing Marker 01: Body Relaxation, notice if your mind also feels more relaxed and has calmed down as your body relaxes. If so, then your mind has already moved onto Marker 02: Mind Relaxation. If you are very aware of sitting in meditation, without sleepiness and happy not to get up, then your mind has already moved onto Marker 03: Mindful Presence. Each of these Markers of calm will develop naturally when we relax and let go of our interest in the world. Our task is to recognise the hindrances to relaxation and calm when they arise and learn how to weaken them so we can enter into deeper states of letting go.
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