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Cultivating Forgiveness & Gratitude

CULTIVATION 02: CURIOSITY & BALANCED EFFORT

Meditation for developing forgiveness and gratitude.

Cultivating Forgiveness & Gratitude

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Forgiveness Meditation

Forgiveness towards yourself and others will help heal your heart and help put down any preoccupation your mind has with the past. Forgiveness does not say that what happened is ok, but rather it says: "What has happened, has happened and I cannot change it; I will not suffer over this anymore".  

As long as we do not forgive our self or others, we will be living a life conditioned by our relationship to the past. 

By putting down our pain through forgiveness, the pains of the past come to an end and awareness more easily dwells within the present experience creating the conditions for wisdom to arise. 


Practice daily for 1 week or until the feel that you have forgiven your past. Then practice weekly or as needed to no longer create any past pain. Learn to forgive from that point as soon as the event occurs to prevent painful memories from being stored. 

Observe that when something is known, it has already occurred, and that you are already viewing a memory of the past, rather than a pure present experience.


NOTE: Once deconditioning and forgiveness are complete it will be as if you have no past, the feeling of past falls away. You will still have all your past memories but the sorting of memories in terms of pleasant and unpleasant vedana will have been stripped away. This means that present suffering is no longer conditioned by past memories.


Step 1: Ask Yourself for Forgiveness

Sit down, close your eyes and bring yourself to mind. Forgive yourself for all the things you have done to bring harm to yourself:

  • “(your name here), if I have done anything to hurt you in any way, knowingly or unknowingly, please forgive me.”
  • Say this slowly and gently with meaning three times and each time picture yourself gently saying back: “I forgive you.”

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Step 2: Ask Another for Forgiveness

Now think of someone that you have hurt in some way. Ask for their forgiveness to allow healing by silently saying to them:

  • “(their name here), if I have done anything to hurt you in any way, knowingly or unknowingly, please forgive me.”
  • Say this slowly and gently with meaning three times and each time picture them gently saying back to you: “I forgive you.”

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Step 3: Offer Forgiveness to Another

Now think of someone that has hurt you in some way. Offer them your forgiveness to allow healing by silently saying to them:

  • “(their name here), for any hurt that you have caused me, in any way, knowingly or unknowingly, I forgive you.”
  • Say this slowly and gently with meaning three times and each time picture them gently saying back to you: “thank you.”


You are ready to progress from forgiveness meditation when:

  • Your mind no longer holds any longings or regrets regarding the past and finds joy in abiding in your present experiences. 
  • Your mind no longer stores memories of present painful experiences because of the combined strength of forgiveness and letting go.


  • SoundCloud: Guided Meditation.
  • Insight Timer App: Guided Meditation.


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Gratitude Meditation

While forgiveness is concerned with healing your relationship towards the past, gratitude is concerned with establishing awareness within the present experience through removing longing for the future.

When gratitude is not present, we lose sight of what is important within our life and start focusing on how we feel things should be. This creates a divide between reality and our desires causing suffering to arise within our life.


Practice daily on waking or before falling asleep. Look for opportunities to reflect on and express what you are fortunate to have within your life.


Step 1: Reflect on Small Things in Life

Sit down and reflect on small things in your life you have to be grateful for. Your house to keep you dry, clothing, food to eat, water to drink. Simple things that you may have taken for granted. 

  • “Thank you for all that I have in my life” 
  • “Thank you for my ( _ _ _ _ _ _ )”
  • “I am so blessed.”   
  • “Thank you for my ( _ _ _ _ _ _ )” 
  • “I am so fortunate.” 

Keep gently repeating these phrases to yourself, in no hurry, and really mean it. Smile when you say it. The key is to develop the feeling of gratitude that comes from this reflection. 

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Step 2: Reflect on People in Your Life

Now reflect on people within your life that you are grateful for.

  • “Thank you (insert name) for loyalty and friendship.” 
  • “I really do appreciate having you in my life.” 
  • “Thank you (insert name) for all you have done for me.”  
  • “I am blessed to have you in my life.” 

Keep focusing on them in your mind allowing the feeling to grow.  

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Step 3: Allow the Feeling to Grow Within

Next, send your thoughts of gratitude out into your neighbourhood, suburb, city, state, country and beyond. 

  • “Thank you for all that I have in my life, I am truly blessed.”


You are ready to progress from systematically cultivating gratitude when:

  • Your mind rests in present experience and loses interest in past & future expectations or anticipations. 


  • SoundCloud: Guided Meditation.
  • Insight Timer App: Guided Meditation.


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